Asperger's husband. I have realised after 23 years of marriage that my husband is AS. My son is also AS.?

But as we were always focused on my son, my husband's odd behaviour was put down to eccentricity, stress, OCD, anything but AS. There has been no formal diagnosis, but as I used to work with children who had AS, it's so glaringly obvious and yet I always pushed the thought aside. Anyway, it explains a lot. Is there a blog/website/anywhere that I can talk to other women whose partners have AS? Thanks anyone.